The Groom's Countdown
Feeling a little lost as to what the duties of a groom are? Below is a list of things you can do, with or
without your bride, to ensure that the wedding goes smoothly.
12 to 18 Months Before
• Meet with both sets of parents to discuss the budget and style of the wedding.
• Go with your fiancée and book the reception site. Many sites fill up quickly so the earlier you
pick a spot, the better!
• Reserve your ceremony location.
• Choose your groomsmen. Figure on one usher per 50 guests.
9 Months Before
• Decide on an Officiant.
• Write out a preliminary guest list. Be sure to get input from your parents.
• Register at one or several locations.
• Before selecting a caterer, go to a tasting.
6 Months Before
• Choose and order your attire and your groomsmen’s outfits.
• Plan and book your honeymoon. Are you looking for fun, seclusion, fine dining? Contact a
travel agent for help.
3 Months Before
• Finalize the guest list.
• Order your wedding bands and decide on inscriptions.
• Check state requirements concerning marriage license and required medical tests.
• Decide on living arrangements and order furnishings.
2 Months Before
• Buy wedding gifts for your bride and groomsmen.
• Get blood test for marriage license.
• Pick up your wedding rings, make sure they fit properly and check the inscription for accuracy.
2 Weeks Before
• Pick up your marriage license.
• Give ushers instructions for seating the guests at the ceremony, especially if there are guests
requiring special assistance.
• Practice your toast to the bride’s family.
• Pick up your rental attire and remind your groomsmen to do the same.
• Arrange for someone to bring the gifts from the reception to your home.
• Get a haircut.
1 Day Before
• Attend the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Give gifts to groomsmen.
• Do something sweet for your bride. A short letter, a flower on her pillow…. she’s worked hard,
show her how much you appreciate her.
Feeling a little lost as to what the duties of a groom are? Below is a list of things you can do, with or
without your bride, to ensure that the wedding goes smoothly.
12 to 18 Months Before
• Meet with both sets of parents to discuss the budget and style of the wedding.
• Go with your fiancée and book the reception site. Many sites fill up quickly so the earlier you
pick a spot, the better!
• Reserve your ceremony location.
• Choose your groomsmen. Figure on one usher per 50 guests.
9 Months Before
• Decide on an Officiant.
• Write out a preliminary guest list. Be sure to get input from your parents.
• Register at one or several locations.
• Before selecting a caterer, go to a tasting.
6 Months Before
• Choose and order your attire and your groomsmen’s outfits.
• Plan and book your honeymoon. Are you looking for fun, seclusion, fine dining? Contact a
travel agent for help.
3 Months Before
• Finalize the guest list.
• Order your wedding bands and decide on inscriptions.
• Check state requirements concerning marriage license and required medical tests.
• Decide on living arrangements and order furnishings.
2 Months Before
• Buy wedding gifts for your bride and groomsmen.
• Get blood test for marriage license.
• Pick up your wedding rings, make sure they fit properly and check the inscription for accuracy.
2 Weeks Before
• Pick up your marriage license.
• Give ushers instructions for seating the guests at the ceremony, especially if there are guests
requiring special assistance.
• Practice your toast to the bride’s family.
• Pick up your rental attire and remind your groomsmen to do the same.
• Arrange for someone to bring the gifts from the reception to your home.
• Get a haircut.
1 Day Before
• Attend the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Give gifts to groomsmen.
• Do something sweet for your bride. A short letter, a flower on her pillow…. she’s worked hard,
show her how much you appreciate her.
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